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Brenda Kadlec's avatar

Very sorry for your loss. I was where you are at a year ago when I suddenly lost my young vibrant loved living life husband at 65 from stomach cancer within in two months. It is one day, one breath at a time. Do not put pressure on yourself. You will heal and become a much stronger person because of it. I'm proof that you can feel happy to want to live life to the fullest again. My prayers are with you.

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Bethany's avatar

Oh, Melissa. My heart breaks for you and your family. There aren't any words. Please know that you have so many people who are holding space for you as you work through this one day at a time. Grief doesn't have a timeline. Sending love, friend.

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Melissa Makarewicz's avatar

Thank you, Bethany

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Andrea A's avatar

I had missed your posts. You matter to folks. And I’m so sorry for your double loss. My warmest wishes for managing through your grief. 💔

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Melissa Makarewicz's avatar

I really needed to hear that today. Thank you, Andrea. ❤️

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L.G. O'Connor's avatar

So sorry for your unspeakable loss. Words are not enough 🙏

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Melissa Makarewicz's avatar

Thank you. I really appreciate you saying that words are not enough... it's so true.

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Larissa Hennessy's avatar

Take as much time for yourself and don’t worry we will be here when you return. Grief can take many forms and you just have to roll with yours and be kind to yourself

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Alice M's avatar

I am so sorry for what you are going through. Give yourself all the time you need. The world can stop for you for awhile.

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Jen Belcher (Travel & Books)'s avatar

Oh my goodness. This is absolutely heartbreaking. I was just thinking about you. Please let this community know what we can do to lift you up and support you.

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Melissa Makarewicz's avatar

Thank you so much, Jen. ❤️

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Audry Fryer's avatar

I'm sorry for your losses. I can't imagine how incredibly difficult this time must be for you. Sending love to you and your family.

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Jennifer @ Mrs Q Book Addict's avatar

I’m so sorry for you loss. After my Mom passed away, I kept asking myself “when does this get easier to deal with?” It took a lot longer than I expected. I realized I had to learn to adjust to this new life. Please be patient with yourself, it does take time.

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Melissa Makarewicz's avatar

Thank you for your words of wisdom. I’m so sorry your mom is gone. ❤️

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Angela Secondino's avatar

Grief is one of the hardest things humans have to go through. It is a journey that no one wants to willingly go on. My heart goes out to at this difficult time. Take all the time you need to find your new way of life. Don’t let anyone tell you to get over the loss; anyone who says that isn’t a friend and has never lost anyone they care about. Feel free to tell us of your struggles and small triumphs as you cope.

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Stephen Bondar's avatar

Sorry, Melissa, I did not put a heart, as there is NOTHING to 'like' about this. And I already knew the first half through DMs. I am so very sorry, and look forward to hearing from you again whe you are ready.

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Melissa Makarewicz's avatar

Thank you, Stephen.

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Kerry Sutherland's avatar

I'm so sorry for your loss - I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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Kuleigh Baker's avatar

I'm so sorry, Melissa. I hope happy memories bring you peace as you grieve.

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N.J. (Nancy) Mastro's avatar

Wishing you peace at this very sad time.

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Susan L.'s avatar

Hugs and prayers, dear Melissa. How lovely to see photos of your loved ones at their happiest, enjoying life. Hold tight to your precious memories of your beloved father and your dear nephew, speak of them often, and never forget the good times. Recall the prayer, "I thank God for lending me you." No matter how long we have our loved ones, it's never long enough.

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Melissa Makarewicz's avatar

Thank you. I shared you quote with my mom and it brought her comfort ❤️

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Patty W Warren's avatar

So sorry, no words can contain this. 💜

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