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A Writer’s Journey's avatar

Under “normal” average circumstances, I wouldn’t want any of my three sons or two daughters to have worked at 14. They did start at 16 and drove themselves. We lived in a relatively small town, so traffic wasn’t an issue. But 4 of them were in sports and band in middle school and high school. We did a lot of driving. And…your son is having a unique opportunity. It’s still not fun to be tied to his schedule. I can’t say I was always in the best of moods when I had to pick up my oldest from advanced high school algebra when he was in middle school, but I did it bcause it was good for him.

Don’t beat yourself up for wishing for a limousines driver for your son.

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Kerry Sutherland's avatar

I still drive my daughter - who is 24 - around. She has her driver's license but has a lot of anxiety about driving, and we only have one car. She has a friend who works near her job take her and bring her home most days, but others I do it, and I don't mind. I take her to the store, too, if she needs something, and since she lives with me, it's easy to add what she needs to anything I'm getting as well. My parents and grandparents helped me out a lot and it feels natural for me to do the same with my kids.

I started working when I was fifteen, and babysat before then. It's good to see kids today taking that initiative as well and getting the hang of balancing school and work. What a fantastic opportunity for your son, to get some teaching experience in the field that interests him while getting paid - he's fortunate to have such supportive parents, too!

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